You have to see yourself in Christ, it’s not about willpower it’s not about discipline, you don’t get a say in how God sees you.
You are the righteousness of God in him, Christ in you the hope of glory
1 Corinthians 3:21 (ESV) 21 So let no one boast in men. For all things are yours,
Ephesians 1:4-5 (ESV) 4 even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love 5 he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will,
He chose you before the foundation of the world was made
Matthew 6.6 