The Critical Eye……….. How I see you is a reflection of how I see me.
You grab a mad dog by the ears when you butt into a quarrel that’s none of your business. The Message
I was going back through some writings this morning when I came across this. As I prepare to go on Quest next week I have to be conscious of this. The Critical eye that sometimes surfaces with me.
I don’t find myself as critical as I used to be. What I am talking about is referring to our need to find fault in others or to point out their shortcomings. You know ………. throwing stones.
Nugget: Just because we see the need in another person does not mean we have the right to invade the individual’s life. Our first goal should be to love the person and make him or her feel safe while owning his problem. If people do not feel safe with their problem, they will feel they have to cover it up. They will not respond positively to our inquisition (on quest this is where we say you have to love them right where they are) we actually force people in to denial by our rejection and condemnation. Quote from the book “How to stop the Pain”
Nugget: Just when I think I am getting better I read this. When I am delivered from a critical eye, I will see people as God see them. I will always know the Spirit of God can work in them to solve every problem and conquer every obstacle. You see, our confidence in people is directly related to our confidence in God. When we see the best in them, they will see, believe, and live the best God has to offer. Quote from the book